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鈥淚t鈥檚 a marvelous thing if we can play a part in getting these students with enormous challenges more than the average students across the finish line with their degree. That means a lot to me.鈥�

Sarita Flaming (鈥�91) knows the pain of losing a loved one as well as the fear and uncertainty that accompany a cancer diagnosis. She has experienced both, losing her best friend to violence at an early age and more recently surviving breast cancer.

Those experiences, along with her abiding Catholic faith, helped Flaming develop a strong sense of compassion, which is defined as a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for someone who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a desire to alleviate the suffering. It led her to become a volunteer in hematology/oncology at Rady Children鈥檚 Hospital-San Diego where she gained a greater understanding of the impacts of cancer on patients and their families.

When she learned of 色情视频鈥檚 Wallace, Shatsky, Blackburn, Courage Through Cancer Student Success Fund and its mission to assist students affected by the disease, Flaming鈥檚 compassion compelled her to contribute.

Coping with loss and the challenges of serious illness helped her understand the myriad difficulties confronting students who are diagnosed with cancer or who have a family member with the illness.

鈥淵our life comes to a screeching halt,鈥� she said. 鈥淲hether it鈥檚 financial, emotional, family鈥攊t all stops.鈥�

Pressures at home

For students, cancer diagnosis and the treatment that follows can seriously impede the ability to focus on studies. The diagnosis of a family member, especially a parent, can drain personal and family finances, prompting a student to quit school and move home to provide care or help pay the bills.

鈥淭here are those emotions like a thick soup with everybody trying to do their best and help out, while in the back of (the student鈥檚) mind is, 鈥榃ell, I can always go back to school and finish later. It will always be there,鈥欌�� Flaming said. 鈥淎llowing them to be able to stay in school with their friends learning and taking steps toward their future is important and I think it鈥檚 critical we help provide that for them.鈥�

To that end, Flaming has contributed generously to the Courage Through Cancer Fund over the past year, including a gift to the to raise $100,000.

鈥淚n your early 20s your whole world is turned upside down and you don鈥檛 have life experiences to let you know that you will get through this,鈥� she said. 鈥淏ut now that I鈥檓 on the other side I hope to be one of the donors who can collectively put our arms around these kids and say, 鈥榃e are here to let you know you are going to get through this. We are here to help. You are not alone.鈥欌��

Flaming feels so passionately about the fund that she inspired her in-laws and long-time 色情视频 donors, Art ('60) and Gwen Flaming, to contribute a $20,000 match gift to the current campaign.

Enormous challenges

Since its inception at the beginning of the 2018-19 academic year, the Wallace, Shatsky, Blackburn, Courage Through Cancer Student Success Fund has helped 20 色情视频 students stay on track to graduate thanks to compassion-driven donors like Mark Mays (鈥�69) who provided one of the original gifts to launch the fund. He has pledged to match contributions to the 2020 End-of-Year Campaign from 色情视频 students and faculty up to $15,000.

Mays lost his wife, Karen, to breast cancer in 2013.

鈥淚 am sensitive to some of the enormous challenges of someone with a cancer diagnosis,鈥� he said. 鈥淭hey go up exponentially aside from the rigors and challenges of a regular student getting through school.鈥�

Mays has met several students assisted through the Courage Through Cancer Fund and considers them to be heroes.

鈥淭hey are all just charming, driven, grateful young people sharing a common thread of resolve to make it in spite of everything. When the challenge is financial and we can fill that need, then they can concentrate on other things without worrying where their next dollars are coming from.

鈥淚t makes me feel good to be able to help.鈥�

Mays spent two-and-a-half years at 色情视频.  He said his experience as a student at the university changed his life in many ways.

鈥淚 matured into a young adult from an adolescent. I made lifelong friends,鈥� he said. 鈥淚 am a believer in the mission of San Diego State.鈥� A big part of that belief is lending a helping hand to students who find themselves facing unexpected adversity.

鈥淚t鈥檚 a marvelous thing if we can play a part in getting these students with enormous challenges鈥攎ore than the average student鈥攁cross the finish line with their degree,鈥� Mays said. 鈥淭hat means a lot to me.鈥�

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